tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post9219715577360021551..comments2023-09-08T05:50:02.938-04:00Comments on Small Town Fashionista: You Will Respect My Authoritah!Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06570402319337666763noreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-10137967752596105762011-09-28T12:39:54.283-04:002011-09-28T12:39:54.283-04:00To be fair, it's not terribly difficult to pok...To be fair, it's not terribly difficult to poke fun with the level of narcissism she displays.nikkinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-2939331607141058862011-09-26T13:23:17.231-04:002011-09-26T13:23:17.231-04:00Again, the issue people are having is not with you...Again, the issue people are having is not with your original actions, but your decision to post all of your dirty underthings--so to speak--for the world to see. It's incredibly immature. It's entertaining for me to read, just like reality shows such as "Teen Mom" are entertaining, but it's also interesting that you don't seem to grasp the tackiness and immaturity of what you're doing. I think you wanted to post these things to "clear the air", but with every post and every comment you write, you come across as an even more callous and oblivious person. You also keep saying that "people are seeing your actions and words as 'crazy', but your love is real and true" and stuff like that; I'm not sure you realize that no one is saying it's "crazy"--your story is actually quite typical. It's...tawdry.M. Allisonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-847139300909487572011-09-26T13:01:56.282-04:002011-09-26T13:01:56.282-04:00It is your blog and I don't have an opinion on...It is your blog and I don't have an opinion on what you post but wanted to give you a heads up that your place of employment is still very easy to find based on your last name being public as well as the state town you live in. I know people out there wouldn't even think twice to contact your employer. Sad but trueTryingtohelpnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-12342384257270310632011-09-26T00:09:36.823-04:002011-09-26T00:09:36.823-04:00How stupid & pathetic! If those people don'...How stupid & pathetic! If those people don't like your blog, why the hell do they read it?? And if they read it and decide they don't like it...STOP READING IT! It's really very simple people. Get a life.Kari Harperhttp://pulse.yahoo.com/_LPLXYIQOIWAJBINLIA7R4O7J5Qnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-2551909534658847252011-09-25T15:34:29.588-04:002011-09-25T15:34:29.588-04:00I really feel that Lola has hit the nail on the he...I really feel that Lola has hit the nail on the head. We all know that marriages fail and that people fall in love unexpectedly, and that they really don't want to hurt anyone. We know that. It happens to a lot of people. However, you seem so very callous in your attitude toward the whole thing. You keep using your new mantra "life is messy" (a phrase that's so overused these days) to justify absolutely everything. Hey, if you screw up and hurt people, just brush it off by saying a quick little "Life is messy" and then you're free to go ahead and rub salt into open wounds. You whine and complain that everyone is against you and calling you names and being insulting. Really? Take a good look at the tons of supporters who have come on this blog to back you up, hurling insults and nasty names at those of us who cannot comprehend how you could be so mean and have so little compassion for the people whose lives you've turned upside down. You have conveyed loud and clear that the ONLY thing that matters now is that you're happy, happy, happy. Well congratulations, but that kind of happiness just seems a little bit "off."blogdiarynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-58545010063453234822011-09-24T19:07:32.085-04:002011-09-24T19:07:32.085-04:00@ Lola- VERY well said.@ Lola- VERY well said.Fidesspesetcaritas1noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-15952271318999497172011-09-24T18:06:59.772-04:002011-09-24T18:06:59.772-04:00I second seeing a psychiatrist. The fact she (and ...I second seeing a psychiatrist. The fact she (and he is 50% of the blame) has no remorse for breaking up a marriage (being a homewrecker basically) speaks volumes about her emotional state. How narcissistic could one person be? Using excuses like "it's common" is an attempt to try and justify her actions.<br /><br />It's sad and horrible that some people cheat, and it shouldn't be encouraged, excused, or applauded in any way, shape, or form by anyone.<br /><br />Everyone posting here has self control. You choose to cheat, there are no excuses.<br /><br />Airing your dirty laundry in public is just tasteless and trashy.Guestnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-43266618085412577192011-09-24T18:03:10.940-04:002011-09-24T18:03:10.940-04:00Makeupalley.com Cafe board is having a field day w...Makeupalley.com Cafe board is having a field day with your blog. In fact, they even had a member who lives in your town friend you on Facebook. Her name on makeupalley is thoughtbubble and her real name is Crystal Stocks. I strongly advise you to delete her from your friend list. She is hoping to run into you so she can get a picture of you for Makeupalley members to make fun of.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-80814070084394282752011-09-24T17:18:11.349-04:002011-09-24T17:18:11.349-04:00As someone who is divorced and was cheated on, I&#...As someone who is divorced and was cheated on, I've moved on. But if I knew my ex's mistress plastered their affair on the Internet, I'd be embarrassed, horrified and heartbroken. On top of it all, I'd be disappointed if his "great love" were this ordinary and cliche.ABcnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-58732941993269261282011-09-24T15:40:28.240-04:002011-09-24T15:40:28.240-04:00i am the commenter that brought up the employer th...i am the commenter that brought up the employer thing to bonnie - FOR HER OWN GOOD. i never, never, never said that i was going to call her employer or try to get her fired. it was out of concern for her, since she had her work email clearly listed on her blog. this would be grounds for termination if they could link these emails (that happened on work time) to her, so i didn't think it was a good idea to have any association with her workplace. my comment was never published so obviously this isn't clear. no one is trying to get her fired, it was just something i noticed and wanted to bring to her attention.just to clear things upnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-82101839231858547192011-09-24T13:16:04.164-04:002011-09-24T13:16:04.164-04:00You are a small army unto itself.You are a small army unto itself.Laura Martinhttp://anthroclosetchaos.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-21542761131932161032011-09-24T11:59:56.827-04:002011-09-24T11:59:56.827-04:00Bonnie, I love reading your open and honest posts....Bonnie, I love reading your open and honest posts. Keep them coming! I am happy you found your happiness.red_head4242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-80255115792615403062011-09-24T08:35:50.858-04:002011-09-24T08:35:50.858-04:00Thanks Sian! That means a lot to me!Thanks Sian! That means a lot to me!Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-36683447884005269812011-09-24T08:35:13.048-04:002011-09-24T08:35:13.048-04:00Thanks! Aw, your favorite fashion blog? That makes...Thanks! Aw, your favorite fashion blog? That makes me happy! :-)Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-21956016694296527342011-09-24T08:34:05.438-04:002011-09-24T08:34:05.438-04:00LOL! Glad you didn't spill it! Thanks!LOL! Glad you didn't spill it! Thanks!Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-16994703225286834562011-09-24T08:33:44.823-04:002011-09-24T08:33:44.823-04:00LOL! Well, alrighty then!LOL! Well, alrighty then!Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-68644198336761443732011-09-24T08:33:02.589-04:002011-09-24T08:33:02.589-04:00Thanks Emmie. I'm going to try to have it out ...Thanks Emmie. I'm going to try to have it out tonight. We'll see...Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-11936240446556450332011-09-24T08:32:37.265-04:002011-09-24T08:32:37.265-04:00Sorry about the strict moderation, but I feel it i...Sorry about the strict moderation, but I feel it is necessary right now. I really hope things return to "normal" soon. This whole thing has been so surreal.Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-22505900283814793412011-09-24T08:31:39.190-04:002011-09-24T08:31:39.190-04:00Thanks Cindy! I felt like my blog had been hijacke...Thanks Cindy! I felt like my blog had been hijacked, but I decided to buck up and take it back from the haters.Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-47561499682880290972011-09-24T08:30:35.453-04:002011-09-24T08:30:35.453-04:00LOL! We couldn't let the terrorists win could ...LOL! We couldn't let the terrorists win could we?Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-8068777691089574562011-09-24T08:29:20.058-04:002011-09-24T08:29:20.058-04:00Thanks Lanny! Even though I'm putting my affai...Thanks Lanny! Even though I'm putting my affair out here for everybody to read, I don't need all the blatant hate. If they don't have anything constructive to say they just need to move on.Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-7510600425503649062011-09-24T08:27:18.211-04:002011-09-24T08:27:18.211-04:00Yeah, me too. Oh well, lesson learned. They may no...Yeah, me too. Oh well, lesson learned. They may not like me, but they will respect me! LOL! ;-)Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-63474506579530428842011-09-24T08:25:32.156-04:002011-09-24T08:25:32.156-04:00I'm sorry you found me under those circumstanc...I'm sorry you found me under those circumstances, but, nevertheless, I'm glad you did. Thanks for your kind comments! Welcome!Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-44157568373248703372011-09-24T08:24:32.058-04:002011-09-24T08:24:32.058-04:00It did get annoying very quickly. I respect other ...It did get annoying very quickly. I respect other people's opinions, but they all kept saying the same things and in a very hateful tone. I have to admit, it feels good to hit delete on those now. ;-)Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-51873667638149960002011-09-24T08:23:03.034-04:002011-09-24T08:23:03.034-04:00Thanks Lily!Thanks Lily!Bonnie Irelandhttp://stfashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com