tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post5973004472887046323..comments2023-09-08T05:50:02.938-04:00Comments on Small Town Fashionista: ImperfectBonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06570402319337666763noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-89799373713481880542011-05-15T12:16:30.329-04:002011-05-15T12:16:30.329-04:00I don't know if you pray, but prayer might hel...I don't know if you pray, but prayer might help you get through this season. It always helps me.Giginoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-57007210747399665292011-05-15T09:25:40.714-04:002011-05-15T09:25:40.714-04:00Give it time. She might never understand but she ...Give it time. She might never understand but she will eventually come to accept. She's just hurting probably.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-59392215892536734842011-05-14T21:01:53.087-04:002011-05-14T21:01:53.087-04:00Hi Bonnie - I'm so sorry, I know how painful i...Hi Bonnie - I'm so sorry, I know how painful it is when your parents reject you. Just know you did the loving thing, and when you feel up to it, try again. In the meantime, take care of yourself and your kiddos. This too shall pass.SLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01922693436315992152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-67307512982208746392011-05-14T13:40:18.390-04:002011-05-14T13:40:18.390-04:00I wish there were some way you could move far far ...I wish there were some way you could move far far away from your parents. I know they are your blood but frankly they seem so unloving and judgmental, I would run far away. My parents are similar, and I can only tolerate seeing them once a year. I try to have compassion for them because I know they say hurtful things because they are insecure, envious, judgmental, controlling, and have so many issues of their own that they can't face so they focus on mine.lisanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-86287074081716767352011-05-14T11:45:39.179-04:002011-05-14T11:45:39.179-04:00I disagree that they are "imperfections"...I disagree that they are "imperfections", everyone is different, and you are perfect just the way you are! :)Kerrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08608521458197495623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-53597583208252104782011-05-14T09:52:43.277-04:002011-05-14T09:52:43.277-04:00You look so beautiful, Bonnie! I love this dress o...You look so beautiful, Bonnie! I love this dress on you - looks fab! You know, a similar thing happened to me one Father's Day with my father (when my parents were going through a divorce). My dad thought I was abandoning him, we had fights, and he didn't respond to my card at all. It hurt. I firmly believe that time heals wounds because, although it's taken a year or two, my dad has come around, and we are developing a new relationship that's stronger than ever. I hope that you and your mom can do the same, Bonnie! :)Lukehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00255900594947603148noreply@blogger.com