tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post4411180713890800940..comments2023-09-08T05:50:02.938-04:00Comments on Small Town Fashionista: Just An ObservationBonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06570402319337666763noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-60888805555307313312011-10-11T15:30:15.398-04:002011-10-11T15:30:15.398-04:00Hey Bonnie,
I love that cardi, I have it too and I...Hey Bonnie,<br />I love that cardi, I have it too and I hardly wear it becoz I dont want anything to happen to it... lol, well some people wear their fav. things more and I wear them less. Well I know i have a problem but that's not why I am writing. I want to know how you make that perfect bun. I am really bad at it and mine ends up looking like a fat small pancake sometimes even a hanging pancake :(<br />would love to know how you do it. ThanksRadsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-20987782201110995122011-10-11T11:01:19.548-04:002011-10-11T11:01:19.548-04:00Way to turn it around.Way to turn it around.Just saying.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-48568855191055914302011-10-10T11:24:55.215-04:002011-10-10T11:24:55.215-04:00Exactly.Exactly.@freshstartgirlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-59457454372593928632011-10-10T01:45:28.707-04:002011-10-10T01:45:28.707-04:00Rape isn't funny ever and comments such as the...Rape isn't funny ever and comments such as the one you are referring to do nothing but reinforce the idea that a woman is somehow responsible for being raped. There is a notion that wearing short skirts, or tight shirts and like means you are "asking for it" and deserve whatever injustice you suffer. A "joke" like the one on GOMI perpetuates a culture that blames women for the sexual violence they sustain at the hands of others. Frankly it wasn't even a clever comment and so, so far away from being funny.ethylinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-29963194343362574482011-10-09T15:41:08.135-04:002011-10-09T15:41:08.135-04:00"Women can be so awful" - Yeah women tha..."Women can be so awful" - Yeah women that steal other people's husbands are truly awful.suchidiotsherenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-81441016675246363902011-10-08T23:40:09.837-04:002011-10-08T23:40:09.837-04:00I agree with you. Some of the comments are not app...I agree with you. Some of the comments are not appropriate at all. I guess they have nothing to do but to trash other people, that is so sadLannynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-33465390565056930432011-10-08T23:12:02.786-04:002011-10-08T23:12:02.786-04:00I'm not a GOMIer, but rape jokes definitely cr...I'm not a GOMIer, but rape jokes definitely cross the line.Kristinanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-60345677163885820012011-10-08T23:11:39.856-04:002011-10-08T23:11:39.856-04:00You have to be doing this just for attention now. ...You have to be doing this just for attention now. Please reread what you wrote. YES THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH RAPE JOKES AND ADULTERY. How anyone wouldn't understand this is completely beyond me.SMHnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-82635868008304445102011-10-08T20:01:52.301-04:002011-10-08T20:01:52.301-04:00You sound angry that another blogger received posi...You sound angry that another blogger received positive attention on GOMI, and that you were perceived as, according to you, "ugly, transgender, fat, adulterous whore who needs a nose job."<br /><br />Why does it matter to you what GOMI and its readers think of you? <br /><br />It seems like you're making a connection between the outrage of readers over the rape joke, and how unfairly you feel like you were treated on GOMI. It's hard to feel sympathetic for you, when you're choosing to go over there, almost as though you're looking for negative comments about yourself. It seems like you're trying to get GOMI's attention (and a spike in readership?). <br /><br />I wish you could have pointed out some of the things on GOMI that are "not half as bad" as the rape joke. Because right now, it reads like you're saying you don't care that victims of sexual abuse, or their advocates, are really offended by rape jokes, because people said bad things about you there, so really, anything goes.<br /><br />It's just depressing to read that someone who upended her life to follow her own happiness is stalking negative attention so obsessively.A Readernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-81115168771252966792011-10-08T14:55:49.974-04:002011-10-08T14:55:49.974-04:00Lol, observe all day! I enjoy reading people's...Lol, observe all day! I enjoy reading people's reactions and observations, but as a GOMI reader this is what we go- observe, discuss. <3 it!<br /><br />As for the rape comment, I have to say it really was out of line. I can't stand people that use rape as a joke, but then again it's a little personal for me. Rape is not funny, it's a terrible thing. The reason why it was so out of context is that the joke associates getting raped with being attractive, and they have nothing to do with one another. Rape is about power and abusing others, not about taking sex from a pretty woman. Making fun of people and joking around about them can be okay when in context and with reason, but we don't need to perpetuate ignorace, racism, sexism, bigotry, etc etc etc. Joking about 'punching' someone because of your frustration with them is nothing compared to that.melissanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-26166591188035882232011-10-08T13:48:55.625-04:002011-10-08T13:48:55.625-04:00Hmmm. Interesting what is loved over there and wh...Hmmm. Interesting what is loved over there and what isn't. It's a little obvious, I'd say. <br /><br />Rape is no joke though. That was a pretty bad comment that person made. In much worse taste than some of the other stuff that is said over there. <br /><br />And who the heck said you need a nose job? That's awful and again untrue. Hope you are taking all that with a grain of salt (and realizing where it is coming from-- reference my mistress comment earlier). Women can be so awful.Catherinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-45784449129998424692011-10-08T12:59:48.369-04:002011-10-08T12:59:48.369-04:00looking stunning as usual Bonnie, good to see your...looking stunning as usual Bonnie, good to see your sense of humour is coming back fast and furiously. You go girl :)Steph Fouchenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-42711975521539560862011-10-08T11:31:59.029-04:002011-10-08T11:31:59.029-04:00Great post, Bonnie. The GOMI-ers are laughably inc...Great post, Bonnie. The GOMI-ers are laughably inconsistent and hypocritical with their outrage and their nastiness. There are a lot of troubled, effed-up women on that site.Skittlewinksnoreply@blogger.com