tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post3025322590011254074..comments2023-09-08T05:50:02.938-04:00Comments on Small Town Fashionista: Free Your Mind (And Your Thong)Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06570402319337666763noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-47160384917279530582012-06-12T23:02:33.415-04:002012-06-12T23:02:33.415-04:00I have to admit I went back through your posts to ...I have to admit I went back through your posts to find the offensive underwear. Does that make me a perv?Louisehttp://coffeeandacardigan.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-48319910259809921132012-06-12T10:41:58.895-04:002012-06-12T10:41:58.895-04:00Actually I think the last couple of posts have bee...Actually I think the last couple of posts have been your best looks in awhile. Screw the detractors. It's easy to sit in a basement and be mean.RichardXBrooksnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-26221329894953081092012-06-11T09:44:56.755-04:002012-06-11T09:44:56.755-04:00oh how do I love this dress. planning to buy it to...oh how do I love this dress. planning to buy it too. Love your location, Bonnie.Olyanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-58920232656870472042012-06-10T21:18:44.878-04:002012-06-10T21:18:44.878-04:00I'm pretty sure in the second photo that you&#...I'm pretty sure in the second photo that you're wearing undies. For this reason I feel you're a dirty girl.Jerrynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-61442554423043583862012-06-10T21:03:21.755-04:002012-06-10T21:03:21.755-04:00It is so easy these days for folks to be mean and ...It is so easy these days for folks to be mean and bully people over the Internet. Let's people type things they would never say to people's faces and HIDE behind their computer, iPad, etc. however, you are correct in the YOu chose how to respond. If you start catering to those bullies, then you are empowering THEM and not yourself. <br /><br />I don't understand why folks don't move along and keep their venom to themselves. Afterall, if your blog was so offensive, why did they take the time to stop, gawk and comment, as rubber necks seem to do. <br /><br />I enjoy reading your blog when I have time, Bonnie, and appreciate how fearlessly you have exposed yourself, warts and all. Don't let the devil steal your joy!!!Bknight522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-26111805155690143652012-06-10T15:14:36.430-04:002012-06-10T15:14:36.430-04:00I really like today's outfit; glad you bought ...I really like today's outfit; glad you bought the dress (I remember the fitting room review). I once read someone's take on VPL along the lines of "do I want people to think I'm not wearing underwear" and thought it was pretty funny because I figure no VPL could be bad sometimes. Honestly, I think you look wonderful in general, panty lines or no panty lines - I have to admit I didn't see the picture. Sometimes underwear shows unexpectedly through clothing. It's helpful when people can point it out nicely so you can try to recover gracefully. Sounds like you did by exchanging the picture, but I'm sorry you were upset by the response.barbnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-4669791805178257722012-06-10T01:26:41.100-04:002012-06-10T01:26:41.100-04:00Hey Bonnie. Guess what? You don't have to like...Hey Bonnie. Guess what? You don't have to like everyone all the time. You get the option to hate and rage and say mean things......and still be a nice person, still be a good person. Anyone who says otherwise and would even think of criticizing you for it is a hypocrite because we all do it at some point to some degree with a fair amount of regularity. Anyone who denies that, is quite frankly a self deluding liar. And you want to know something else? Your rants and rages are totally allowed to be contradictory to your 'reality'. I rant and hiss and piss about people and their behavior sometimes, and then stop and think "WTF, Lisa, you're totally not being rational". That's okay though, you don't have to be right or follow a pattern or make any sense when you're blowing off a good head of rage-hate-steam. Contrary to all the self-righteous internet perfect commenters (because gawd knows this is the only place besides in their minds that they are as perfect as they present themselves)....hate and anger are not 'pure poison to the mind and soul', they don't make you hopelessly bitter and ugly. They make you normal, and well rounded, they balance out all the sugary sweet turn the other cheek turn that frown upside down crap that the perfects would have you believe you should always practice. <br />Fuck em, and next time go commando, with one good 'sheer' shot.Lisa Stinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-16770480321609759852012-06-09T15:46:24.754-04:002012-06-09T15:46:24.754-04:00FFS, you're just pissed that you didn't no...FFS, you're just pissed that you didn't notice you took a pic of her undies and allowed her to post them on the internet.Whatevsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-25657042941480104322012-06-09T12:11:44.882-04:002012-06-09T12:11:44.882-04:00Everyone wears underwear! I can't see any pics...Everyone wears underwear! I can't see any pics where they are showing, but for people to make a big deal out of that is ridiculous. They just want to get you going. Chin up, girl! You always look great!Stephanienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-84716585494582912712012-06-09T10:01:21.790-04:002012-06-09T10:01:21.790-04:00Your underpants *were* visible in the pic. Having...Your underpants *were* visible in the pic. Having that pointed out is a minor embarrassment that I would laugh off. You've said many times that you lack self-esteem, and you seem to be a perfectionist in many ways. That's ok. That's who you are. I think it's just important to have self-awareness about things and enable yourself to recognize when you might be over-reacting to an event, comment, or minor embarrassment. Don't sweat the small stuff, girl. You have enough big stuff to deal with, let's face it.Ruffle&Flownoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-86218450819935966262012-06-09T08:28:10.404-04:002012-06-09T08:28:10.404-04:00Oh - hahah - my best friend and I say that all the...Oh - hahah - my best friend and I say that all the time. Sometimes, we just sum it up with a simple, "PEOPLE." I hate them too. There's so many good movie lines about it that I know we're not alone - like Ricky Gervais in Ghost Town, when a woman asks him, "Oh, you hate crowds?" And he replies, "no, no, not crowdsso much. It's more, the individuals IN the crowds that I can't stand..." or something like that. BRILLIANT. :o) And a sublime example of irony is that the post that conjured up someone staring at your thong was "Flaws". Uh, weren't you admitting and embracing the fact that you aren't perfect? PEOPLE. I hate 'em. :o)Nesdamycartnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-60544765794757984352012-06-09T08:26:52.284-04:002012-06-09T08:26:52.284-04:00Bonnie,
You look great. :D Legs for days in this ...Bonnie,<br /><br />You look great. :D Legs for days in this dress! <br /><br />Dear Anon,<br /><br />Do you have a life? Do you get your kicks by insulting? I think you are a coward, lonely and obviously bored to death with what you have of a life. I mean really.. you don't even have the courage to post your picture or name. Grow up. If you don't like Bonnie or her style MOVE on.Bethnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-47947675855821482412012-06-08T23:27:10.233-04:002012-06-08T23:27:10.233-04:00If someone told me my underwear was showing in a p...If someone told me my underwear was showing in a pic I posted on the internet, I would say "oopsie" and thank that person for saving me from embarrassment. No need to launch an attack over it and call the person meanie.Idontgetyounoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-62510475412142701362012-06-08T23:03:31.085-04:002012-06-08T23:03:31.085-04:00That's a beautiful outfit. You sound to me li...That's a beautiful outfit. You sound to me like you're searching very hard for something. I don't know you or what your life is like in person, but I suspect that you already have what you're looking for. I think that your last paragraph stating the need to look within puts you on the right track.Tonyanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-53712919500901272092012-06-08T21:54:55.240-04:002012-06-08T21:54:55.240-04:00I was listening to Fiona Apple "To Your Love&...I was listening to Fiona Apple "To Your Love" when I read this... true story :) In my humble opinion you should just pity the people with enough time on their hands to study your crotch, underwear, or anything else for that matter... I'd keep my nose clear if I were you... they'll be on the look out for boogers next ;) Let it roll off your back. NOT WORTH IT!Jennifer Sanzonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-74795289468598219902012-06-08T21:45:48.999-04:002012-06-08T21:45:48.999-04:00Well let me just say this: I don't care all th...Well let me just say this: I don't care all the nattering nabobs of negativity have been saying...this post and the prior one were home runs with me! You knocked it out of the park. Sexy as hell to boot. People on the Internet just love to bring you down. F**k 'em. You look great!!Just some guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-59244478277714568482012-06-08T20:37:36.808-04:002012-06-08T20:37:36.808-04:00Mwahaha! That title is awesome...but seriously, wh...Mwahaha! That title is awesome...but seriously, who looks for other people's underwear? Sigh. Humans do really make it hard to be nice. <br /><br />I love that dress! It's perfect for summer. And it totally reminds me of The Girl of the Limberlost. Which is a win, fo' sho'.dellagraceslifenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-60279380017492269692012-06-08T19:19:53.369-04:002012-06-08T19:19:53.369-04:00If this was your outfit today, you at least looked...If this was your outfit today, you at least looked very pretty despite being full of rage! I Love the ring you are wearing on your middle finger- where is it from?Spiffynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-51369673537324595802012-06-08T18:51:09.628-04:002012-06-08T18:51:09.628-04:00Do you have any friends? You never talk about the...Do you have any friends? You never talk about them. I'm curious as sometimes, as friends, we just have to listen to them going on about their lives, plans, goals, and yes, even their excitement for something as trivial as Friday. It strikes me as odd that you have such a negative reaction.Anonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2493987722691542290.post-30061042563452358502012-06-08T18:23:45.100-04:002012-06-08T18:23:45.100-04:00C'mon Bonnie! "I absolutely hate drama&qu...C'mon Bonnie! "I absolutely hate drama"... really? You clearly love/need attention and the same goes for drama. If comments get a little slow you post a gem like this fishing for attention. Or something like the below comment on FB.<br />"Given the pitiful number of comments on my last post, I fear I have been forgotten. Maybe some Anthropologie Fitting Room Reviews will liven things up a bit. C'mon, you know you want to tell me how hideous I look."<br /><br />At least be honest with yourself. You're so self-focused (or is that self-involved?) I'd think you'd be able to recognize this.Anonnoreply@blogger.com